Now it’s day 4. Saturday has arrived. The past days have been a roller coaster of new information, complex decisions, confused emotions and a great briefing by dr Namikawa for me and my family.
Scans speak a definitive language which cannot be translated easily, but with the help of my doctor my wife and children could also understand the implications of a large white spot midway my spine. Also a small grey spot in the center of the brain could be seen, which was worrying and still under investigation. It might be the cause of my facial palsy (paralysis) …
Kaishu (27) was there. He had come by Shinkansen from Nagoya where he works for ASML. Marika (17) was there as well, coming straight from her High-school. I suddenly remembered our first family meeting in Paragon, Singapore. It was January 2017 and had called them together with my wife Yuka to break the news of my Melanoma cancer diagnosis.
We decided then that we would continue with our lives as before, accepting the situation. We broke up continuing with our appointments and making the diagnosis part of our lives in a natural way.
5 years had passed by like a blur, they had grown up so fast without a father to do fun things together like hiking, sailing, Roppongy nights. Kaishu had broken off his master’s study Physics in Eindhoven to get a job during COVID times. I had given him an introduction in the business aspects of Manufacturing which he had absorbed like a sponge.
Marika had started midway primary-6 after moving. Quite a shock after exciting Bangalore and Singapore… Luckily, after trying so many school entry exams, she had secured a spot and was admitted in the strict and old fashioned Ochanomisu Middle-school (7-9th grade), followed by Hiroo private High-school (10-12th grade)
Yuka had been their anchor and had organized every aspect of their education and mental growth in such an amazing way that they had been shaped in caring, smart, exploring young adults. Finding their way in the digital world with a healthy balance between on-line and off-line worlds and friends. Amazing…
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