What does that mean? For 3 months now I depended completely on my wife to arrange everything around me. For me, hospital, house, mental, etc. All this while she was running the house and everything else.
On New Year’s Eve she asked me to open her door, to be free of being responsible for my care. I was a bit sudden, but I could see how tired she was.
I am trying to figure out what she did which I can do:
My appetitive is back, my body is getting stronger, my mind is stable, so here I go and enter 2022 as a mentally fit patient, ready to be healthy and ready for work. It’s so easy to keep on relying, and not have a breakthrough.
My son is coughing, is it COVID? Test this morning. My wife’s best friend needs brain surgery. It’s time for me to get strong and healthy. A mental click. Now! Get up and make breakfast.
My wife is smart and supportive, there is no need for longer patient care, as long as I am not alone to make decisions with the doctor. So Kaishu will join the next visit on 6-Jan.
- Prepare your own meals. OK
- Take medicine on time: OK (forgot on 1Jan)
- Increase stamina: go for daily walks and exercises: OK
- Go hospital. for blood checks: OK
- Clean the bath, do chores in the house: OK
My appetitive is back, my body is getting stronger, my mind is stable, so here I go and enter 2022 as a mentally fit patient, ready to be healthy and ready for work. It’s so easy to keep on relying, and not have a breakthrough.
My son is coughing, is it COVID? Test this morning. My wife’s best friend needs brain surgery. It’s time for me to get strong and healthy. A mental click. Now! Get up and make breakfast.
My wife is smart and supportive, there is no need for longer patient care, as long as I am not alone to make decisions with the doctor. So Kaishu will join the next visit on 6-Jan.
